The Unique Bond Between Singers Dolly and Stella Parton
Country music legends Dolly and Stella Parton share an undeniable sisterly bond, even if over the decades they‘ve followed their own paths to success. Let‘s take a closer look at the relationship between these two talented singers who both found their way into the spotlight.
Small Town Girls With Big Musical Dreams
Much like you and me, Dolly and Stella grew up with musical passions. Born in the 1940s in Locust Ridge, Tennessee, the sisters were two of 12 children in the Parton family. Music brought joy to their humble home and provided an escape from poverty.
Dolly has said: "Singing made me feel special. Mama would smile and daddy would tap his feet. I felt like a little princess in a fairy tale."
Stella too found music magical, saying: "When I sang, it was like being lifted into a world where anything was possible."
By age 10, both girls were performing locally. Little did they know where their talents would take them!
Pursuing Solo Success in the Spotlight
Though starting out together, the sisters ultimately forged their own solo paths.
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In 1967, 21 year-old Dolly Parton catapulted to stardom with hits like "Dumb Blonde." She‘s gone on to have 25 #1 country singles and massive crossover success.
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Stella also signed a record deal in the late 1960s. While never reaching Dolly‘s mainstream popularity, she found success of her own, releasing over 20 albums with 3 top 20 country hits.
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Stella primarily stuck to country and gospel music while Dolly crossed over into pop as well.
Despite busy solo careers, the sisters did come together musically at times:
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In 1975, they released a duet called "I Want to Hold You in My Dreams Tonight" which peaked at #7 on the country charts.
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In 1979, they sang together at the Country Music Association Awards.
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Stella has made cameo appearances in Dolly‘s live shows over the years.
But these collaborations were the exception, not the rule. Most of the time, the sisters were blazing their own trails.
Separate Circles: Friends, Family, and Fans
With time, Dolly and Stella formed their own distinct circles, personally and professionally.
Dolly has often called fellow musician Linda Ronstadt one of her best friends, while Stella became closer to country artist Loretta Lynn.
Dolly remains very close with younger sister Rachel Parton, while Stella drifted apart from some of her other siblings.
Professionally, Dolly and Stella ran in different Nashville crowds. Dolly‘s star-studded collaborations were with artists like Kenny Rogers, Emmylou Harris, and Tanya Tucker. Stella worked with more gospel and lesser-known country acts.
They also developed their own fan bases, with little crossover. In fact, some of Dolly‘s younger fans today don‘t even realize she has an older sister who performs!
Dolly On Motherhood and Family
Despite their 12 siblings, Stella and Dolly made different choices when it came to starting families of their own.
After divorcing her husband Bob in 1978, Stella never remarried or had more children. She has four kids with Bob from their marriage.
Dolly has famously never had biological children, focusing on her career and relationship with Carl Dean.
She has said: “I grew up in a big old family with eight kids younger than me and I took care of them… I think that took away the joy of motherhood. I had mothered enough!”
Though their paths differed here, Dolly remains close with her nieces, nephews, and the children in her life. Family comes first for the Partons!
Sisters By Blood, But Not By Bond
Make no mistake – Dolly and Stella harbor nothing but admiration for each other. But their relationship is defined by respect more than affection.
Stella has candidly stated: “Dolly and I have never been close. We‘ve gotten closer as we‘ve gotten older.”
They may not be best friend material, but they‘ll always share the connection of sisterhood.
Dolly has said: "Stella is so precious to me. She‘s got her own style and I‘ve got mine. We‘ve always just kind of let each other be who we are.”
Conclusion: Two Icons Who Took Different Roads
There‘s no denying Dolly and Stella Parton are both wildly talented. Music brought passion and purpose to their lives from a young age. But as they blossomed into legends, their paths diverged.
While the sisters will always share southern roots and family ties, their relationships and careers took shape independently. Over the decades, brief musical collaborations were the exception to largely separate lives in the spotlight.
Yet their mutual small town background and belief in the power of music remains a bond between the two, binding them in sisterhood. Dolly sums it up perfectly:
"We‘re country girls. We come from the same set of roots.”