Is "guys" a unisex term? A laid-back linguistic look
Hey friend! The word "guys" has meant a lot of different things over the years. These days, many folks use "guys" to talk to any group of people, regardless of gender. But not everyone agrees that "guys" can be unisex.
In this post, we‘ll take a lighthearted look at how and why the meaning of "guys" has changed. As a linguistics nerd, I think it‘s fascinating to see how language evolves! Stick with me, and we‘ll get into the history, controversies, and recommendations around using this little word "guys".
Let‘s start with the word "guy" itself
The word "guy" originally meant something very different from how we use it today:
- In the 17th century, a "guy" was a frightening person in absurd costume (like during Guy Fawkes Night). Spooky!
- By the 18th century, "guy" referred to an effigy of Guy Fawkes that people would burn on Guy Fawkes Day. Not a very positive meaning!
- In the 19th century, it evolved to simply mean any man or fellow. Phew, not creepy anymore!
So historically, "guy" always referred solely to men or boys. And when you made it plural – "guys" – it was understood as a group of males. Pretty straightforward so far!
The meaning expands in the 1900s
By the mid-20th century, things started to change:
- In 1961, Merriam-Webster dictionary added a new definition of "guys" as "persons of either sex". Quite the departure!
- In the 60s and 70s, young women started using "guys" to refer to any group of people. Groovy!
- Marketers picked up on this shift too – "Hey guys!" in ads began targeting women as well.
- By the 1990s "guys" as a unisex term was widely accepted and used in media. Radical!
So in popular speech, "guys" made the leap from only referring to men, to also including women in casual conversation. What sparked this change?
Why did "guys" gain a wider meaning?
There were likely a few sociolinguistic factors at play in the evolution of "guys" to a gender-inclusive term:
- The informality and youthfulness of "guys" made it appealing.
- A need emerged for unisex terms to refer to mixed-gender groups.
- Women entering previously male-dominated spaces drove change.
- English lacks a widely-used gender-neutral singular pronoun like "they".
- "Gals", "ladies", "girls" felt outdated or junior for adult women.
- "Guys" filled the gap as a casual and age-appropriate alternative.
So the change arose both naturally from spoken language, and intentionally by women and marketers. Pretty nifty how language adapts to the needs of speakers!
Evidence that "guys" has gone mainstream
Today you‘ll find extensive evidence that "guys" is used as a unisex term:
- Most standard dictionaries include a gender-neutral definition of "guys".
- Corpus linguistics studies find women referred to as "guys" in casual speech.
- A 1994 academic survey found 33% of young women were addressed as "guys".
- Media, ads, TV, movies regularly use "hey guys" to mixed groups.
- No strong gender-neutral alternative like "y‘all" or "yinz" has emerged.
Yet the debate continues about whether "guys" still carries a male-skewing connotation…
Does "guys" still sound mostly masculine?
Despite widespread unisex usage, some folks argue "guys" retains a predominantly male orientation:
- Etymologically, "guys" derives from the masculine "guy".
- For some, "guys" unconsciously conjures up images of men.
- Options like "y‘all" or "folks" are seen as more balanced choices.
- Some women report feeling dismissed or excluded by "hey guys".
Surveys on the term yield mixed perspectives. For example:
| Year | Group | % OK with "guys" as unisex |
|---|---|---|
| 1994 | U.S. college women | 33% |
| 2021 | U.S. women 18-29 | 73% |
So views clearly differ on whether "guys" still skews masculine today!
It often depends on the context
Whether folks perceive "guys" as a clearly gender-neutral term tends to depend on:
- Age – Older people are less comfortable with unisex "guys".
- Region – More common in American/Canadian speech than elsewhere.
- Setting – Formal contexts call for gendered phrasing.
- Audience – Cater to personal preferences where possible.
I‘ve certainly been in situations where using "ladies and gentlemen" instead of "guys" went over better with an older crowd!
Some alternatives to try
If you‘re addressing a group and want to avoid any masculine connotations, there are plenty of options:
- Folks
- Y‘all
- People
- All
- Everybody
- Friends
- Team
- Crew
There are also some new proposed gender-neutral terms gaining traction:
- Yinz
- Y‘allses
- Guys and gals
But so far, none have quite caught on the same way "guys" has in casual speech.
My take as a linguistics nerd
After looking at the history and usage data, here‘s my hot take:
While "guys" absolutely originated as a masculine term, it has evolved and is now generally accepted as gender-inclusive in casual contexts. However, there are still situations where alternatives are preferable.
As with any language change, adaptation takes time and awareness. But English has proven itself flexible enough to gain new unisex terms organically, like "guys". And that ability to evolve is what keeps our language fresh and relevant!
So I say embrace "guys" in relaxed settings, but opt for more precise terms in formal or conservative company. If we speak mindfully and compassionately, English has the tools to reflect our ever more inclusive society.
Alright, those are my musings as a linguistics geek! Let me know if you have any other language questions. English is so delightfully quirky – I could chat about this stuff all day. Thanks for hanging out, friend!