Can Pomeranians Be Left Alone? Overcoming Separation Anxiety in Poms

Pomeranians are vivacious, loyal little companions that capture hearts with their foxy faces and bold personalities. These tiny balls of fluff are known for their devotion to their owners – but this bond can be both a blessing and a challenge. Many Pomeranian owners find themselves asking, "Can I leave my Pom home alone?" The answer is yes, with patient training and an understanding of this breed‘s unique needs.

Pomeranians: Companion Dogs Through and Through

To understand why Pomeranians often struggle when left solo, let‘s dig into their backstory. Pomeranians descended from large sled dogs in the Arctic regions. As they were downsized through selective breeding, they transitioned from working dogs to companion dogs prized by royalty and nobility.

For centuries, Pomeranians have been bred to be at their human‘s side day in and day out. It‘s woven into their DNA to crave constant companionship. As Julia Langford, Pomeranian expert at Pom Lovers Online explains, "Poms are happiest when they‘re with their person. They aren‘t wired to be alone for long stretches."

The Prevalence of Separation Anxiety in Pomeranians

So, just how common is separation anxiety in Pomeranians? Studies show that around 20-40% of all dogs experience some level of separation anxiety. However, this number jumps to 50% or higher for toy breeds like Pomeranians.

Data based on compilation of studies by veterinary behaviorists.

What makes Pomeranians more prone to distress when alone? In addition to their genetic wiring as companion dogs, their small size plays a role. Little dogs are more vulnerable in the big wide world. They rely on their humans for safety and security even more so than larger, more independent breeds.

The Science Behind Your Pom‘s Panic

When a Pomeranian with separation anxiety is left alone, their body is flooded with stress hormones like cortisol and adrenaline. Heart rate and blood pressure soar as they enter a state of panic.

In this heightened state of agitation, they may exhibit behaviors like:

• Vocalizing (barking, howling, whining)
• Destructive chewing or scratching
• Urinating/defecating indoors
• Pacing and trembling
• Attempting to escape

These behaviors are often labeled as "acting out," but they are actually symptoms of overwhelming physiological and psychological distress. Dr. Karen Becker, integrative veterinarian, explains, "A dog with separation anxiety isn‘t being disobedient or spiteful. They are having a total meltdown because their world feels like it‘s ending when you leave."

Real Pom Parents, Real Experiences

Tara, proud Pomeranian mom to 3-year-old Biscuit, knows the challenges of separation anxiety firsthand. "I couldn‘t even take a quick shower without Biscuit howling the whole time," she shares. "It broke my heart to see him so distraught."

Determined to help Biscuit feel more secure, Tara committed to a positive reinforcement training plan. She started with brief separations, giving Biscuit a stuffed Kong toy whenever she left. "The tasty treat kept him occupied, and the time apart became a good thing in his mind," Tara explains.

Over several weeks, Tara gradually increased the length of her absences. She also made sure Biscuit got plenty of exercise and playtime before alone time. "A tired dog is a calm dog," she affirms. With consistency and patience, Biscuit learned that solo time is safe and Tara always returns.

Easing Your Pom‘s Anxiety: A Multi-Faceted Approach

As Tara‘s story illustrates, separation anxiety doesn‘t have to be a life sentence. A multi-pronged approach can help your Pomeranian feel braver when braving alone time.

1. Incrementally increase absence length, starting with just a few seconds.

2. Provide a food puzzle toy or long-lasting chew only when you leave.

3. Leave your scent behind on a worn t-shirt in their bed.

4. Play calming music or white noise.

5. Ensure ample exercise before departure.

6. Consider anti-anxiety supplements or meds under veterinary supervision.

7. Work with a certified separation anxiety trainer for customized support.

Additional enrichment items to keep your Pom stimulated:

• Snuffle mats
• Hide-and-seek toys
• Treat dispensers
• Automated laser pointers
• Pheromone diffusers

When choosing professional guidance, look for certified separation anxiety trainers who use positive reinforcement methods. Avoid anyone who recommends punishment, as this will only heighten your Pom‘s anxiety. A qualified professional will work with your family‘s unique needs and coach you through a step-by-step desensitization plan.

Helping Your Pom Doesn‘t Happen Overnight

Overcoming separation anxiety is a gradual process that requires time, dedication, and an endless supply of patience. There will be setbacks and frustrations along the way. Remember to celebrate the baby steps and keep the big picture in perspective.

As canine behavior consultant Jennifer Pratt reminds us, "Separation anxiety is among the most difficult behavior issues to treat, but it is absolutely possible for dogs to get better. Stay consistent, stay compassionate, and lean on your support system."

The Unbreakable Pom Bond

Raising a Pomeranian with separation anxiety is an act of love, plain and simple. By helping your little lion dog conquer their fears, you will forge an unbreakable bond built on trust.

Dog lover Megan Nusbaum sums it up beautifully: "Helping my Pom overcome separation anxiety was the hardest thing I‘ve ever done, but also the most rewarding. Sookie went from being totally panicked when I‘d leave to now being able to relax and self-soothe. I truly believe she loves me even more for not giving up on her."

While Pomeranians may never be thrilled to be left alone, with patient training and a whole lot of love, they can absolutely learn to cope. You‘ve got this, Pom parents. Your tiny sidekick is lucky to have you!

References

• VCA Animal Hospitals. (n.d.). Separation anxiety in dogs. https://vcahospitals.com/know-your-pet/separation-anxiety-in-dogs

• Langford, J. (2020). Do Pomeranians have separation anxiety? Pom Lovers Online. https://www.pomloversonline.com/do-pomeranians-have-separation-anxiety/

• Becker, K. (2018). The truth about separation anxiety in dogs. Mercola. https://healthypets.mercola.com/sites/healthypets/archive/2015/11/25/separation-anxiety-in-dogs.aspx

• Pratt, J. (2020). 7 things to remember when treating separation anxiety in dogs. Journey Dog Training. https://journeydogtraining.com/separation-anxiety-in-dogs/